Judging people??????????

Hello everybody!!!!!!! I am back to write again.. I really dont have some topic to write today but i have this feeling inside to write something.. I was just going through the news paper today in the morning and there was an article in it on Jade Goody and how she became famous and how she died. The article spoke of her days in Big Brother when she bad mouthed shilpa shetty and how she became a villain in everybody's eyes... Today they say she has died hero's death and the answer to that is ' Yes she made a mistake of bad mouthing or insulting somebody but she also had enough guts to apologise and take the responsibility'..... I was wondering about the day she was crticised by everybody and how difficult it would have been to her.. Not only to her it could be shilpa shetty or AmitabhBachchan or anybody who could be going through the same situation.. What right did we have to judge them by one mistake that they have made?? What right do we have to judge ppl on the opposite side by the confession they make?? How can you decide for somebody else that this person is timid,useless,used for pitying?? Why do we have to remember for wrong things that they have done?? Why cannot we learn good out of people around us rather than commenting how bad they are ?? Are we all nothing bunch of hypocrites who can only just go about commenting people in and around?? If you think you have the right to judge others then keep your opinion and judgement to yourself there is no need for you to force it on somebody else.. At the end of the day it is tht person's life they know what they are doing..... Did u protect them when they needed you for you to judge him/her??? Were you there for them when they needed you the most?? If people are sharing things with you they do not expect you to judge them based on it they only expect you to understand and they dont want one more person in the world to judge them!!!! Have you put yourself in their shoes to comment on it??? Think about it people this made me think and i for one do not want to become an hypocrite .. I have learnt today judging people is not the right thing because i was not in their shoes!!!! If i cannot understand i will shut my mouth and listen to it and be calm about it and be sure not to accuse the other person with my eyes nor with my good for nothing opinions because i dont think i am leading his/her life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love

I know it is a four letter word which has the power to destroy everything you have or to make our life easier for the rest of our life.. I always wonder and i still do as to what exactly is 'love'....For me it has been and it still remains as some kind of strange and mystic word... Everybody has there own view as far as love is concerned but from what i have seen and observed that when this word is mentioned people primarily think as this is some kind of a thing or a goal that needs to be achieved...

Love is not something that we achieve its not a award or a reward to wear it on the sleeve and display it.. It is a feeling an emotional one at it..Emotions are not mean to be labeled, packaged, and contained. They are meant to be experienced and felt, but also sometimes they are meant to be released. That is why there is power in them.” I know i cannot make somebody love me by duress but that does not stop me from loving the person and when i say 'love' i mean an unconditional one something that does not come with condition.. If you have conditions then it is not love it is an agreement.. We cannot snatch this from somebody and people don't love each other for some condition and when i say this it need not necessarily be a relation between man and woman but between everything – even between a little child and an interesting butterfly the child has seen. I hope everybody realises that the power of love is not in getting it and enjoying it all the time but to keep giving it and still keep going. When i say this i know it is very difficult to keep giving and not to expect but i think it is sometimes worth the smile that you get to see on his/her face.... I just wanted to request everybody to spread love, show care,appreciation and let your friends,mum,dad,sisters and your partner know that you are there for them........